Clarity

Today I visited my friend who has cancer and she commented on how in one tiny second, all her priorities changed.  Before her diagnosis, she had many goals and plans but after the diagnosis, she realized how those goals no longer mattered.  What did matter was her family.  She wanted to be available to her husband, children and grandchildren.  She wanted to enjoy the simple pleasures of life. 

It didn't seem like a blessing at the time but facing mortality gave her clarity that she didn't have before.  Some people live their entire life never realizing that they missed what is most important. 

I hope I never get too busy that I neglect to give my best time and effort to my family.  Nothing is more important than they are.